Best Friendship

Making best ever close friends and perhaps even more important is having a best friend, which can be a crucial factor in strengthening your self-esteem.

Feeling good about our self is more than just a phrase; It actually becomes an energy force for us. when our self-esteem is boosted, we become more optimistic, we treat people around us with kindness and yes we smile alot. And when we smile others smile back at us.This gives us a greatness feeling within us.


Its unfortunate that authentic friendships are harder to come by these days. Perhaps our time is too filled with one-minute-every-thing kind, like email, SMS'es,Chatting, call waiting....we are communicating through machines where empathy and emotion don't compute.How much ever the technology developed for getting people more closer being far aside physically, still machines are far behind in communicating the exact utter feelings beside what we expose or express through letters.

Indeed friendship has become the most neglected relationship of our busy and anxious times.

Good friendship don't just happen and they don't sail along on constant smooth waters either.Best friendship is said to be exists between us when there is an intimate relationship, in which we can be who we are (rather than what the other person wants and expects us to be) and allow the person to do the same.this means we can say what we think and feel in a relatively uncensored way, and we can share both our competence and our vulnerabilities without having to hide or exaggerate either ...... an intimate relationship enlarges rather than diminishes our sense of the world and ourselves.

It is this very sense of emotional intimacy that must be tha basis of a good friendship and the foundation of any relationship that may develop into a more permanent relationship.We may even call this most intimate relationship as platonic friendship, whether we call the other as Friend, a pal, a companion to share , buddy or whatever.

To enhance your friendship, feel comfortable with the other person.You may feel a a little vulnerable at first, you will actually. But as you open up and communicate honestly respecting one anthers opinions even though you may not agree with them and appreciating each others differences you will begin to relax and just enjoy the flow of friendship.

Proof - The Evidence

Most relavant words i come across today: Proof - Evidence , Truth

What is Proof, what is Evidence and What is truth?


Proof is any factual evidence that helps to establish the truth of something;

Evidence is your basis for belief or disbelief;

Truth is a fact that has been verified;

For example What is the proof that i am "ALIVE". I have the knowledge that i am alive. But still to prove it , needs evidence.Lets take evidence "breath". I say i can breath so i am alive.Buti need to prove that my heart beats or still technically i have to prove that my brain is "Not Dead" which menas my brain is working in normal conditions. Implying I am Alive.

When we believe something ir a true, it needs evidence by which we can prove taht our belief is true.

If someone else doesnot believe what I believe with their own evidence. Implying both of us are telling truths which are mutually exclusive.Here am taking an example of existance of God.

Then I say a thing can be said truth when it does not depends on any time factors or any subjective evidence.

So such type of knowledge by which we can say a particualr thing is TRUTH, that knowledge is said to be Devine Knowledge.

Anything that becomes valid or invalid based on time is exactly not the TRUTH.Anything that becomes valid or invalid based on a peroson's perspective is not the TRUTH.

TRUTH is not subjective to change at any circumstances. That is the TRUTH.

My New Ear Rings

Yesterday it happened to visit Lepakshi Exhibition held very near my hostel. Exhibitions usually attracts girls. Me not any exception and i love to roam in crowds especially like in exhibitions.

Most of the sections are filled with girls surrounding whee most of the products are female oriented.As usual, boys accompany them in such places. I don't know why girls always want to show their talents in selection process and try to prove before their beloved. May be its not to prove their talent but it is to test their beloved purse weight!!!

Ornaments have always fascinated girls.Me wandering each section, stuck near the accessories section.I don't know why even i wear metallic artificial accessories very rare, but they attract me like magnet.I use to collect beautiful ear rings especially where ever i find them.The earrings dangling at the ends of earlobes look so beautiful for girls. They highlight the face and produce a charming look.Girls/Womens make over is not complete without an earring hanging from the ears and catalyzing their beauty.Sometimes it gets a romantic look on the girls face.Many Stories and movies proved the importance of beautiful earrings hanging on the girls ears.


I took a earring set and asked for the cost.The sales guy told some rate which we can get the same type of ear rings for half of that rate outside on road.My friend catched my hand and took me from there but my eyes were stuck on them.I came back again and asked for discount because unless he gives for the rate my friend asked, she wont allow me to buy.



Seeing the interest in my eyes towards them he refused to decrease. These sales guys naa actually they know better the pulse of girls that when they like something they get ready to buy even they are not necessary for them actually.Me not an exception got ready to give the cost as told by him.But my Friend started again bargaining with him looking angrily into my eyes for saying that i will pay the actual cost told by that sales guy.My friend thinks that i always waste money in buying accessories and not suing them at least for once.

I say to my friend that I pick a rose from market and i keep before my desk and see it till it dries.I enjoy its beauty the whole day which gives me much more happy than keeping it in my hair for others to see it. Isn't it fault? I ask her the same way i enjoy its beauty having such ear rings with me. No matter whether i wear them or not. See once i start to wear them regularly, one day they lose their color and grace, then i cant throw them aside because i got them and i loved them to have with me.

I use to listen many complaints from my friends(who are boys) too about girls purchasing behaviours that they purchase unnecessary things.But they cant estimate the joy they feel inside them purchasing than using them.

I say there are many things in the world which are not exactly we use them all, but still we like them to see and to listen or to feel like.

I got those ear rings by paying the cost told by the sales person and came out with my Friend asking her to excuse me and promising that next time i will only buy for the rate she says.

Kal ho na ho....

The saints explained truly how much valuable every minute in our lives. Every second passes by, which we have to live to its fullest. We cant get back any of one second passed.

You walk along on a green grass carpet, under the shadows of life. Time passes.You may have lost many valuable minutes or you may ignored many other people who come across your way while you are searching for unknown things which could have satisfied you.You participate in running race to achieve something while you are passing away many valuable scenarios around you which also can get you happiness and joy.

Stop searching happiness anywhere in this world. It can only be find in you and no where but only in yourself. Take the life as a chance given for you to live and learn. Not to enjoy and win.Love thy people, love thy nature, love thy animals and love all things living or non-living.


God can be found in Love not in Vedas or not by chantings and not even by reading sacred books or writing sacred words. All things in this universe are perishable. Only divine knowledge of love is imperishable.When nothing stays permanently, why we fight with each other, why don't we love.

Destroy your inner darkness born out of your ignorance with the lamp of wisdom shining in your hearts.

Live Today. By the end of the Day,Learn from Today.Who knows what happens tomorrow......"hum Kal ho na ho!!!"

My Interview Published

Oh My God!!!

Thank you so much. I feel a little excited to read my Interview in a Blog. Even its a starttup blog craeted to get together all IT professonals of my Hometown, "The Great Proddatur".

Here it goes:
http://proddatur-it-friends.blogspot.com/2008/11/meet-proddatur-it-professionals.html

It gave me a small excited happiness to be the first Person of that Blog whose interview published as part of "Meet an Proddatur IT professional weekly". thanks for the Blog Editor for giving me such an oppurutunity.

Funny thing is I too felt little proud to see my interview published.I had shared that with my collegues too. Hmmmm...!!! now i known why these politicians are so crazy about their interviews in the newspapers.

Hey friends!!! Get Ready to celebrate this....we will Rock on.

Lovely Daily

-> Waking up by 6 a.m and listenign to Devotional songs coming on each channel of FM statios by leaning on the bed itself till 7.oo a.m

-> Having Bed Coffee in this cold winter mornings

-> Playing with the bubbles of My Pears Soap

-> Smell the odour of my hair outof Shikakai Shampoo

-> Smell the well ironed dress

-> Pray Lord Venkateswara to keep my Day beutiful and fill it with colors, Believing that he listened my prayer, keep the sindhuri on the forehead, and giving a smile to Lord Balalji.

-> Getting warmth with application of cold cream on the skin

-> Pointingout errors and bugs in Aunty's(Hostel Warden) prepared Breakfast and Curry

-> Reading Eenadu News paper Headlines and Business pages

-> Making my Lunch box prepared; oh my god! it takes long waiting to finish others an dget my turn to handle the spoons and items

-> Hurrying to catch Bus with my ID card, Hand Bag, Lunch box and Tissue Paper

-> Observing the girls and boys standing at the stop and observing their body languages in their different moods adn words

-> Coming to office, sit in my cabin, pray God once and look at the eys of the Ganesh's Idol and Sai Baba's Idol once and switch on the system.

-> Leaving office in the evening , very tired , listening songs again, by changing to various FM channels, so atht anywhere i can listen my favorites.

-> Again the Bus stop. This time the kind of people are different. All are IT professionals(by profession only!). THeir style, grace,looks and behaviours to attract other poeple to observe them and know about their goodness in dress.

-> On the way to Hostel from getting down from bus to room, Its Ameerpet (so colorfull!). I see Couples , some of them fighting and breaking cell phones on roads, some like looking the sky for their future plans, some of them in deep discussion about each one's behaviours before their friends. Some of them just getting their impressions on other by their magical words and laughs and looks. Some just looking at each other(as they think they are in deep love!!!) :)

-> oh my God! Ice Cream Cart at the entrance of our Street!!! I love Venella and Butter Scotch and Mango. From far long way as the cart appers, i lok at it eating all the items in it by my eyes itself and I pass by.

-> Having Dinner with daily routine Sambar thinking it as a Chicken Biryani!!!
:(

-> Making calls to some of my Friends

Some who sent me their queries regarding next weekend plans and meeting them and lunch and dinners...all about spending some time with them.

Some calls from far away friends, keeping each others in touch and updating about other friends.

Some calls from near and dear friends. Little fighting and scoldings with them and settling little disputes and at last go to bed to dream for my Dream Boy!!!

:)