Frangrance of Jasmine

Have a deep breath of fragrance of jasmines with closed eyes...an eternal smile raises deep from the heart mildly changing your mood to forget all the world around you for a second...makes you feel staying on the waves of ocean...feeling like flying under the clouds that are heavily loaded just about to rain with a throw of fresh air on your face with the smell of mud included...relieved from all pressures of deadlines and client calls...Its a treasure in your hair I say.

There are so many songs on jasmine in our telugu sung by the Great Ghantasala. One song immediately running in my heart is the song in Malleswari movie(old),... "manasuna malleala maala loogene...".

మనసున మల్లెల మాలలూగెనే


కన్నుల వెన్నల డోలలూగెనే

ఎంత హాయి ఈ రేయి నిండెనో

ఎన్ని నాళ్ళకీ బ్రతుకు పండెనో....
 
Heart will really fly away with the singer in this song...definitely you will stay silent for a while to come out of the spell of emotions surrounded your heart to become normal.
 
There is no comparison to the smell of jasmine to any perfumes or deodorants. No one are exception from the magic of Jasmines fragrance. Of course now a days very few girls are having flowers in hair. Its treated like uncultured in this ultra metro modern society. So sad that now flowers are only meant for festival decoration...and for devoting to God in temples or in marriages.

Making garland form the loose flowers is an art i should say. when we st rat tie-knot all the flowers to each other in  a rope...i like to watch the finger of people who are tieing flowers. They dance in an artistically way. You know it gives an excercise to fingers to roll on all ways round.

Think of  in this summer you are under the jasmine tree, the branches are dangling swing by the breeze, you are under the moon shine counting the stars..sleeping beside your mother listening to the stories heading on her hands...the beautiful memories are flying all around my mind...just thinking to disappear from here and immmediately go to home to my mother...now!!!

- Lakhsmi Sravanthi Chowdam

Helloo!! Is it LOVE?

Did any unknown person called you Helloo!! on road with a smile on his face? Did any one fell in love with you at first sight? And if anyone says it to you, will you smile at hime? What do you think if any person sing a song seeing you at aleast if he hums any song before you? But for sure some one has seen you and given expressions on their face..Mat be appreciating when oyu are really looking good, or surprised look when you are looking different from others or a look that makes you to turn your head away from them with a feeling that "what this bloody idiots always looking at girls?" Does any one followed you on road for a while? In any scenario that girls are facing on roads now a days, none feels any LOVE or atleast attraction towards those guys for sure.

If any person had done a drama like above mentioned before you, Do you feel "hey he is a hero in my life"? But, in movies  HERO does all these and we like him and come out of the theatre with a feel that " Oh! how good if we have a person lie him in our life!! then life will be so colorfull with rainbows on head...rain in hands and foot in air...". Bull shit!!! We seriously think baout the heroine and her family to accept the hero for doing all such dramas.

Two people who are financially stable and responsible for their life and who are fullfilling their duties towards their families...and those who know each other in person, and know each others habits, likes-dislikes and ambitions and goals and then have to think about the future life by marrying him or her. If still they think or feel to complete their incomplete life with him or he as life partner then they can go ahead and get married. They doesnt need their family consent when they are much strong enough to face the society and life with all the ups and downs of their worlds.

I say people who are able to see their future with responisiblity as their one eye and society as their second eye, only have right to  LOVE and get marry with whom ever they like in thier life.

People who think that they have all guts to face challenges in life who are still students or still not financially stable, whould concentrate on their career first. If they do then these are the most successfull people in their proffession.

Its all about my views and thoughts...comments are most welcome!!!

- Lakshmi Sravanthi Chowdam

When we SHARE

I have studied in school in our small town where i learnt to share things, to play games, to fight with friends and i also learnt to ask co-students if i need any help from them.

We all may have distributed chacolates at one year or other on our birthdays. We also had shared sweets that are distributed on the occasion of Independence day, Gandhi Jayanthi and  Republic day.

We may have played many indoor games at school like as I played Kabaddi, Arrow target game, Thokkudu billa. When i got stuck or got any injuries, we use to cry, get badaged and play once again in the ground.

When we have any disagreemtns with friends we used to fight with them. We used to question directly. We use to complain to leaders.

And at time of exams, we used to take help of otehr students to solve any Mathematical problems or equations in chemistry.

Anytime, we used to be so as we are. No inhibitions at any time. If any student behaves arrogantly we used to bravely stand before the and able to say that we will make complaint about their behavior to the master.

We used to share many personal things with classamtes. Our very valuable sharpeners, erasers, extra pencil withus , scale etc.,  At more higher level, we also share calculators, instrument box blah blah...and ta more higher level, we shared even answer sheets in examination room. We are in a mutual understadnign that we all are the oen and the same fighting for exams and future.

When we got into jobs, what changed people to stop sharing, stop asking, stop talkign to each other, stop helping!!! Here also we are all one and the same. Fighting for LIFE. The most important than any exam we had written. But we fear to ask any help. Asking help instead is treated as doing any illegal thing.

In playing games, if any of our friend fell down to earth, get injured then everryone in school surrond the person who is injured adn show our sorrow towards her/him. We make the person to feel better and to be brave enough to get back to the game.

But in our jobs, if anyone does any mistake, we all surrond him not to hlep him out but to punish him.  We never share our excellence. We never share our goodness. We never share our kindness. And we never share our love towards mankind. We are behaving worst than any animals. We never correct any collegue to make him/her improve professionally or technically!!! We always stand to celebrate partys of the company, but not ups and downs of our collegue.

We say we are professinal but we never have feelings and emotions to react for other person's tensions or sorrows.  Machines are so better as when they get heated enough they stop working and take rest. Where are these professional personalities gonig towards??? Is this a symbolic representation of personality disorder!!!

SHARING is the basic thing for a person that should give utmost happiness to self and not any pain in heart when shared. If its not happening then its a personality  disorder. 

 Everyone feel as if they are the great person in office/team than anyone else. These people always try to find some fault in other team members to prove themselves as best. This is termed as "Narcissistic Personality Disorder ". 

Here is the  link to get more understanding on these people:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder

thats why things we shared at our childhood became sweet memories while the situations we are in now in our offices have became worst situations which making us to share like sorrows in life and ;aways think to forget for tomorow.

- Lakhsmi Sravanthi Chowdam

Happy Holi

Happy HOLI!! :)

- Lakhsmi Sravanthi Chowdam