Good Husband Vs. Happy Life

Today it raised n my mind who is called a good husband. Anyhow its all about a small discussion gone among my frineds. As its all time of marriages, some of my frinds who are still single started defining husbands about their GOOD and BAD.

The inititals voting gone for questions like, a person called a GOOD husband if:

• He is a husband of GOOD wife
• He is a person passed all rules of being GOOD husband (some basic rules may vary from one to one)
• Husband, who confirms himself as GOOD
• A person who satifies his BAD Wife
• A person who survives from his BAD Wife
• A husband who is sadi as GOOD by all the family members/relatives
• A person who is told by his frineds that his wife is so lucky to hve him as husband

Scenarios are here for voting. :)
I dont want to discuss detail about any of these questions which leads mymarried frineds come and beat me. ;)

What qualities will a girl looks in a person to be his husband may vary. One may look for better confotness in society to live with. Soem may look Love and understanding. Some may believe mutual respect. Some may believe having similar favours, likes and dislikes. Some may believe high social  value to have. Some stupids also may think just to have a guy as husband who they get married by their parents. And no more exceptions to those guys who are sold out to girls in terms of dowry, those girls are vey much living happily with their quality goods buyed in qholesale or retail markets of Bridegrooms.

What i think is rather than thinking having good or bad husband, one should think they are happy or not about their life. As i listened a person who is praised by his wife is not said to be good husband as my understanding a wife who feels proud about her husband will definitly living happily.

I know people always complain that some girls haivng good husband  but still that they are not happy with their life. GOOD is always used as an alternative for "useless" as per some  people,because people who cannot achieve anything and may pretend to be good.  As we say in telugu, మంచితనం అంటే చేత కాని తనం.Ofcourse this issue may lead to Prolonged hammering :) I want to just put an end line with a brief about having good husband Vs. Living Happy Life.

I will vote to those married couples, having bad ends at both sides, but still live happily with each other with better more understanding and respect towards each other.



      - Lakhsmi Sravanthi Chowdam