Rebuild and Save Your Relationships

Relationship should never be broken because of "A Person", "A thing", "A reason" or "A situation".

Relationship is not that lies between two people, its the matter that was created by the five elements of the universe. And this matter once created can never get destroyed even after the death of those people(like we listen some lines like those two were best friends when they were alive). It lies always....but may vary its colors and forms.

Its the responsibility of those people to build it if not yet built properly, to manage if it requires any maintainability and repairs, manage it towards the only good form of it and should be reworked every time to make this "matter" more comfortable between those people.

If there are any compalints, then there is fault by both, as both have neglected come area of their relationship and forgot the checklist before windup of any talks.

Checklist here I mean:

Whenever you talk to any person related to you, I mean if there is any realtionship between you and them, before closing any talk, just check do you had spoken any words that the other person may recall and hurt after the talks? Do check yourself always that after finishing your talks, that either other person will definitely smile after you turn around recalling your conversation or not? also, do check after a long time gap between you people, if either of you come across the names of each other, then a gentle smile appears on your face and just dial the other person to have a small hi or hello and vice versa....Never leave any conversation unclosed or incomplete.

If sometime or later if you find something wrong or empty in your relationships, just dont ignore it, Rework on it. Identify the cause or need or problem.This can be very difficult to many. Many people do have tendencies to believe that the symptoms of the problem are the actual problem itself.

If your relationship is worth saving, there is no reason whatsoever why you shouldn't put forth an effort to save your relationship.

If you have identified the problem is, hearing both of your thoughts is the next step. Tell everything you want to say to your partner and don't hold back. Afterwards, listen to what your partner has to say. It is suppose to be that way to successfully save the relationship. Reconnect to your partner by holding each others hand while you discuss about your problem. Bear in mind, that anything that your partner talks about is meant to rebuild the relationship, not to hurt you. You both have met to rebuild the relationship but not to make it more worse. Never lead this conversation to an argument. Just make it a discussion to understand each other and to understand what went wrong between you people.

Develop a plan of action to fix the problem.

When most of us say “I’m sorry!” it doesn’t work because the apology doesn’t include these two steps. Accept blame and acknowledge the pain you caused your mate. When you’ve done this, you are well on your way to rebuilding trust. There

First step to resolve any issue or problem is to accept the blame. Yes, you accept the blame and say "Sorry" too.The words you spell must just come from your heart and accept blame by seeing in the eyes of your mate.

Then say something like “I know I hurt you, and here is the hurt I think I caused you.”

You caused it, so you accept responsibility for that as well. “Hey, I know I made you feel like I don’t appreciate or respect you, and I know that I broke your heart in pieces…”

You must understand that once you commit to save your relationship, you are committing to the whole process of it. As you move forward, there will be moments of joy and there will also be moments of sorrow

But I remind you never ever let your ego run between the process of rebuilding your relationships. If it gets into, you start thinking like "why should I, every time?" Be cautious about this and go on.

Also Trust your mate as you do earlier of your breakup. Never doubt your mate after any breakup. And also never blame for the same incident once had happened and never ever recall the past breakups and pin point each other.

In most of the cases, the actual cause of any relationship problem is miscommunication or misconception. Make your communication better. Never hesitate to repeat any of your expressions to make other person conceive the same way you meant.

If you do maintain all these then all your realtionships stay healthier and better and makes you happy and gives you peacefull mind and increaeses your self trust and your capabilities.

Save your Relationships. Relationships are what that makes you stronger to struggle against your life and Relationships are friends that support you in your path of Life.