A great turn in my life..."Marriage"...... awaiting....dont know where this turn takes my life....a new world, with all new seasons and shades and colors.
Friends are asking me for my opinions on what qualities I like or expect from a good life partner... :)
So many questions arising ...Before expecting something i was thinking what can I give to my Life partner.Just LOVE him?Then here raises my questions: what is LOVE? Love is a load of noble thoughts as I listened.Is it whatever we feel whenever we are around a particular person?
When can we know that he is perfect match for me?When does I know he is truly loving me? when his looks penetrates deep into my heart....? When I feel like i cant stay without him? or If I feel if he stays in my life, then my life looks meaningfull and has completeness...?
Even when I run away from his deep hypnotizing look...I just can't resist...I just feel so weak... and can't fight back... or don't want to fight back... Every bit of my desire for him...desire just to be there along with him...and to look at him...look at him...look at him.... is this LOVE?
Is he my soul mate who becomes my weakness and he only becomes my strengths? Or when I feel that i can spend whole life happily just by haivng him beside me? Or if I feel that by having him beside, I feel very strong enough to achieve every thing I want from my life. I think there must be something in his heart that makes me, want to lose myself .
Sometimes i think, forget about someone else creeping into my life and let none rule my heart.
Shall I let it be just a turn or am I going to make it "the" turn, that's the question on my mind right now...My life is in my hands...and i'm putting my hands on the gear...but I wonder which speed to give it? a 1 ? a 2? a 3? a 4? or a 5?...
The arrows of my emotions hitting my heart.....its sweet suffering, and its a wonderful bliss ... ;)
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Friday, September 26, 2008
Expired Relatonships
I had read a line recently that "Every Relatioship has an Expiry Date". It was nothing when I read it for first time. But I had known the meaning now a days. Here I derive from the word expiry date, every relationship will also have a manufacturing date. So when it comes to manufacturing a relationship, the outcome of production is a Relationship itself. In general Expiry date is fixed based on created date.
So coming to Production, as a commerce student I made some eqations like there exists production errors in some Products(relatioships) which ultimatly endsup/expires/destroys before its expiry date. Ultimatly the manufacturer whose efforts made this product to comeout, will suffer alot by the Loss (here i define LOSS in terms of feelings and emotions developed with that relationship).
Feelings or Emotions developed once cant be destroyed with out any stains left.So before creating any Relationship, be ready to get stained too.
And be sure that no production errors are made in a hurry to produce the product early. Never compromise in Quality too.
For all my relationships which are expired on or before the expiry date, I always had stored their impressions inside my memories. And for each such relationship i learned many errors or bugs i made while manufacturing them.
Thank you LIFE for giving me this oppurtunity and Thank you GOD for giving me this LIFE.
So coming to Production, as a commerce student I made some eqations like there exists production errors in some Products(relatioships) which ultimatly endsup/expires/destroys before its expiry date. Ultimatly the manufacturer whose efforts made this product to comeout, will suffer alot by the Loss (here i define LOSS in terms of feelings and emotions developed with that relationship).
Feelings or Emotions developed once cant be destroyed with out any stains left.So before creating any Relationship, be ready to get stained too.
And be sure that no production errors are made in a hurry to produce the product early. Never compromise in Quality too.
For all my relationships which are expired on or before the expiry date, I always had stored their impressions inside my memories. And for each such relationship i learned many errors or bugs i made while manufacturing them.
Thank you LIFE for giving me this oppurtunity and Thank you GOD for giving me this LIFE.
Friday, September 12, 2008
Liberty and Individuality
A monarch said to a hermit, "Come with me and I will give you power."
"I have all the power that I know how to use," replied the hermit.
"Come," said the king, "I will give you wealth."
"I have no wants that money can supply." said the hermit.
"I will give you honor," said the monarch.
"Ah, honor cannot be given, it must he earned," was the hermit's answer. "Come," said the king, making a last appeal, "and I will give you happiness." "No," said the man of solitude, "there is no happiness without liberty, and he who follows cannot be free."
"You shall have liberty too," said the king. "Then I will stay where I am," said the old man.
What is Liberty? its a Freedom of choice. Every person need to have their own choice on how to live and what to believe.
We are all travelers, and not one traveler is perfectly certain that he is going in the right direction.But every traveller believes his own way or direction is better than others.Other travellers may divert us , try to convince us theirs way is good or better or best. Individuality exists here.Its uniqueness in our thoughts and beliefs from others.
I wish to rely a little upon my own judgment in any matter. What I believe is right, I will do it. We should all remember that to be like other people is to be unlike ourselves. It is a responsibility to think and act for yourself.
Every human being should take a road of his own. Every mind should be true to itself -- should think, investigate and conclude for itself.Once you start changing your mind or thoughts or way or direction for others, then starts the death of your Liberty and individuality taht exists with that person for whom you change.
This is all my opinion on being self. Individuality gives us a feeling of self-respect and personal worth.
"I have all the power that I know how to use," replied the hermit.
"Come," said the king, "I will give you wealth."
"I have no wants that money can supply." said the hermit.
"I will give you honor," said the monarch.
"Ah, honor cannot be given, it must he earned," was the hermit's answer. "Come," said the king, making a last appeal, "and I will give you happiness." "No," said the man of solitude, "there is no happiness without liberty, and he who follows cannot be free."
"You shall have liberty too," said the king. "Then I will stay where I am," said the old man.
What is Liberty? its a Freedom of choice. Every person need to have their own choice on how to live and what to believe.
We are all travelers, and not one traveler is perfectly certain that he is going in the right direction.But every traveller believes his own way or direction is better than others.Other travellers may divert us , try to convince us theirs way is good or better or best. Individuality exists here.Its uniqueness in our thoughts and beliefs from others.
I wish to rely a little upon my own judgment in any matter. What I believe is right, I will do it. We should all remember that to be like other people is to be unlike ourselves. It is a responsibility to think and act for yourself.
Every human being should take a road of his own. Every mind should be true to itself -- should think, investigate and conclude for itself.Once you start changing your mind or thoughts or way or direction for others, then starts the death of your Liberty and individuality taht exists with that person for whom you change.
This is all my opinion on being self. Individuality gives us a feeling of self-respect and personal worth.
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
I pray to born as Women always
I feel so proud sometimes to be born as a Women.
The strengths SHE has are unique. SHE can do anything if SHE desires, SHE can achieve anything if SHE wants.
And SHE can forgive, SHE can forget , SHE can shower love, SHE is strong, SHE is soft, SHE is brave, SHE can handle troubles, SHE can take any burdens on to her shoulder, SHE laughs, SHE cries, SHE kisses, and SHE SHE SHE SHE can do anything in this universe. And there are no limits for her desires.
SHE plays many roles in her life, a daughter,a sister, a friend, a close pal, a wife, a partner, a soul mate, a mother, a child, an elder etc etc. Sometimes she also plays as a Father.
But SHE forgets what she is worth.
Its fromWomen, all these people in the world are born out from.
Dear Girls/Ladies/Women,
Believe in you,
In what you want and what you do,
Then Success is yours.
It's the strength of a woman
The strengths SHE has are unique. SHE can do anything if SHE desires, SHE can achieve anything if SHE wants.
And SHE can forgive, SHE can forget , SHE can shower love, SHE is strong, SHE is soft, SHE is brave, SHE can handle troubles, SHE can take any burdens on to her shoulder, SHE laughs, SHE cries, SHE kisses, and SHE SHE SHE SHE can do anything in this universe. And there are no limits for her desires.
SHE plays many roles in her life, a daughter,a sister, a friend, a close pal, a wife, a partner, a soul mate, a mother, a child, an elder etc etc. Sometimes she also plays as a Father.
But SHE forgets what she is worth.
Its fromWomen, all these people in the world are born out from.
Dear Girls/Ladies/Women,
Believe in you,
In what you want and what you do,
Then Success is yours.
It's the strength of a woman
Monday, September 8, 2008
Life is all a game of Snakes and Ladders
Life always is a game of Snake and ladder. We have to move our dice according to what the goals we had set to reach.
If we fail to move our dice accordingly, the dice will move our golas randomly may be towards or away. Make your way more secured before taking any step forward. There lies a possibility always to find a snake or a ladder.
Or sometimes stable empty cells where in the life too we dont find any improvement in the situations we are in. But we must not lose hope. Have to go forward moving the dice around.
Sometimes we may move from one cell to another cell which has neither snake nor ladder, even after our hard worked movements towards our goals, But we should not get discouraged. One cell moving forward is a symbol of moving one step ahead towards our goals.
keeping this in mind, Move forward in your Life.
If we fail to move our dice accordingly, the dice will move our golas randomly may be towards or away. Make your way more secured before taking any step forward. There lies a possibility always to find a snake or a ladder.
Or sometimes stable empty cells where in the life too we dont find any improvement in the situations we are in. But we must not lose hope. Have to go forward moving the dice around.
Sometimes we may move from one cell to another cell which has neither snake nor ladder, even after our hard worked movements towards our goals, But we should not get discouraged. One cell moving forward is a symbol of moving one step ahead towards our goals.
keeping this in mind, Move forward in your Life.
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